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The terrible 2
posted by suzanneong on 13-01-2009 à 07:52
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My son now turns 2 last Dec, I heard everybody says it's the start of the terrible 2 and usually the kids will stay like this until age 4, Before, when we went to the supermarket, my son would just sit quietly on the shopping cart and help us pick some foods or junk food, now when he's out he just want to run around, or push the push cart, it's so hard to manage, I'm afraid that sometimes when he runs a lot of times, he almost bump into the other push cart, or other person so these last few times when we went to the supermarket, we are not letting him coming with us, but it's really hard sometimes you feel guilty that you just leave your kid at home, and it's not really a solution to just let him stay put, he still needs to go out! and now no matter what we do, we can't have him drink his daily vitamins, he'll just spit it all out, he is super active, and choosy on his food...
How to manage ???
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He is so makulit and naughty. The problem is he doesn’t want to eat rice. He likes bread and candies. I don’t have any problem in giving him vitamins and medicines. What my advice is for you to be very patient. Understand that every child would pass this stage. We are here to guide and lead their paths. |
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tnx Dapple, actually my son love anything that's crunchy rather than sweet ha ha ha !.. I don't mind how other people see us actually when he throw tantrums in the supermarket, I was like more concern that when he runs he might run into other shopping cart pushing by the other customer, or bumping to other people while he runs... |
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Hi! My son is now 4 yrs old. When he was two, he does exactly what your son does every time we go to supermarket. It is true that toddlers belonging at this stage of “terrible 2” are difficult to manage. But we continued to bring him with us up to now. We just let him sit on the shopping cart and get him something to eat and drink or a toy while we are on the process.
For a toddler, supermarkets can be exciting places. But the frustration of not being allowed to reach out and touch all those colorful things can lead to emotional overload. Give him a toy or something to hold while you go round. Try the following tips:
· Try to avoid items you don't want them to have, like sweets/ chocolates.
· To feel strong and calm you may need to work at managing your own stress levels. Make sure you give yourself time to take a break and relax sometimes: burning some oils or incense or taking a nice pampering bath will give you a chance to recharge batteries.
· Look out for what they may have eaten. Too many sugary foods or drinks can lead to hyperactivity in children.
· Have a snack or drink ready to hand. They may genuinely be hungry or thirsty.
· Shopping can be stressful for a parent at the best of times. Check out your own stress levels and try to go shopping when you are feeling strong and calm (and have eaten something yourself).
· Get the children involved. It may take a little longer but you could get them involved in counting fruit and vegetables into bags. This might be more useful with pre-school children. As a bonus it will help them with their learning too.
· Remember how big you will seem to your child. If a tantrum starts, crouch down to their height and talk to them quietly but firmly. Tantrums can be a result of your toddler not being able to tell you easily what they want.
· Always keep calm, which is easier said than done if you are tired or stressed yourself. However, becoming angry won't help the situation as your toddler will get mixed messages. Be sure to look after yourself and to take a break if you need one. Remaining calm, can also help to prevent temper tantrums in the future.
· You can try counting to ten, either to yourself or with your child in calm, clear voice. This may give you an opportunity to cool down and it may give your child a signal that their behavior is not acceptable, as well as a chance for them to calm down too.
· Try to avoid worrying what other shoppers think of you and your child. Most people who have had children will understand what you're going through.
· If possible find a quieter place to go in the supermarket, away from stares, so you can talk to your child.
· Acknowledge your child's feelings — anger can be frightening.
Tantrums can happen anywhere at any time but if the supermarket is a particular trigger for you and your child, it is advisable to leave your child with a friend or family member and go alone.
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Oh my. My brother was also as hyperactive as that when he was 2 years old. |
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He was later diagnosed with ADHD, but many years later, it turned out to be a misdiagnosis. He soon outgrew the hyperactivity though.
