Does your weight ever interferred with your lovelife?

im so happy coz my husband always loves my body and always tells me im sexy....it really does feels gud...but i still want to be more fit for him....thats y i want to loose a little bit more...

Some of us would of course not reveal that our weight had at one point in fact interferred with our lovelife.

Well, there are of course so many other factors that can interfer with one's lovelife and I think the better question to be asked should be: do you think that your being over or underweight interfers with your lovelife?

To be really anlytical and straight about this stimulating question, I think or better yet, I know that weight (in this context) can interfer with our lovelife... if it hasn't already, it will eventually...it's just not so easy to notice it, realize it or all the more, accept it...BUT, don't you Belles know that it is a scientifically proven fact that obesity or even being underweight can affect your libido? And let's accept it, sabay takip sa bibig at konting hagikgik, sex is a major part of a relationship and sincerity is also a major part of a relationship. I wrote sincerity, not honesty because honesty is a word that is being used, abused, overused and misused, even if what we really are up to is just being bitchy  or tacky (then we say "am just being honest" haha!).

I certainly don't want my husband to tell me I am slim when I know I can see a mini elephant with my face on it in front of a mirror! I'd rather that my husband tells me: "honey, you have gained a lot of weight...I am worried you'll get sick and die early so why don't you try to lose weight?". Being sincere and telling someone with love and care about one's shortcoming is better than flattering. If we are to practice INTROSPECTION more often, and if we really love our obese or overweight partner, I think we can look him/her in the eye, hold his/her hand firmly and engage him/her in a very serious but loving conversation about changing his/her lifestyle and losing weight (or gaining weight) for his/her own sake...

Confidence is key! Size zero of 22, it's all about how comfortable you are in your own skin.

If your weight causes a relationship to fail, you should thank god that someone that shallow is out of your life sooner rather than later!

But if you sabotage your own relationships by being insecure and refusing to do certain things because you are "too fat", that's different. It's really not easy, but you have to love yourself and your body first, and treat it right. Then, I promise you will look better. Whether or not there is any actual weight loss, confidence will make you 100x prettier!

My husband would always say that he finds fat women sexy!  Although he says he is happy with how i look, i don't feel attractive at all. that is why i choose to be fit!  Having a hard time fitting into the driver's seat is not sexy for me!

That's how you know you have a winner!! A man, if he really loves you for who you are, will see past all of that. It's what you yourself feel comfortable with and what you yourself will do to change the way you look to make yourself feel better

i am also a big woman but my husband still loves me just the way i am but im still hoping and struggling to lose weight for myself of course,

it never bothered me till the guy i liked commented on my size...but then it made me realize that i wanted to lose weight not because i want him to like  me but because i want to be fit and healthy. fat is beautiful, yes, but fat can never be fit. i chose to be fit instead.

I think it all comes down to the fact that if you are happy with yourself. Because if you are happy and like the way you look you will exude that to the opposite sex and your love life will be full of passion. Now if you are always down about the way you look then you and only you can change that. You cannot look to anyone but yourself to take action and start doing something about it. You need to find a motivation in your life to get you moving and if that's having a better love life then so be it. 

Often times we look to other people to give us approval, though at times it may make us feel better, and at other times it may not, we really need to focus on what makes us happy. It's all up to you and only you and once people really understand that and apply that they will definitely start seeing a change!!

So just go for it

Yes. or there is something wrong with Filipinos? Other nationality likes big women but the pinoys nahh! 

Well I don't think so, well I have a friend she's well very tall, beautiful, but extremely large, she's knows how to carry herself well, good personality, frank, masaya to be with, my other friends says "and laki niyang tao no?!" my gosh, she had lots of suitors, even if she already had a BF she still have suitors, even if she went to the bars, there's guys asking for her number... grabe, ang matindi... ang daming suitors na mayayaman at gwapo... So I think it's not really size matters but how you let other see you as a person. That's more important.

Sweety... everything has to first come from you. You have to feel comfortable about yourself, about how you look. Anything is sexy. You do not have to be literally sexy, and thin to be one.  A guy gets attracted to independent, and strong women with self confidence. It's all about how you well you carry yourself and how you perceive things. You are beautiful! and I'm sure that there are guys attracted to you, but you just have to believe in yourself for them to believe in you.  

yes, SSB here (single since birth ) i often think it's because of my weight, i don't really think im attractive so maybe that affects how others perceive me na rin.